The newest batch of letters.

Here is a bunch of positive letters. The first one is from the first person who spoke with me the Tuesday the letters exploded. I'm coming to appreciate her more and more. There was one negative letter today, though that one deserves its own post.

*****

Dear Brett,

I have been reflecting about your letter of October 23, 2006, and I want to commend you for being courageous enough to express your convictions. Silence means many things, but it does not necessarily get anything changed. When I attended college, a student who was gay attempted suicide. One of my former coworkers is faced with his family ignoring his sexual orientation.

When we understand each other, we no longer have to fear each other. My friends are very diverse, and they enrich my life. I do not want to exclude anyone until I have a reason to exclude the person.

I appreciate your musical ability, your sense of humor, your kindness, and your friendliness. My GED students are in awe of you. Sometimes, I hear the children talking with you, and I catch myself smiling. None of these qualities are influenced by sexual orientation.

A loving relationship is difficult at times. If someone is fortunate enough to have a good relationship, I think the two people should be able to share their lives as a couple. A political cartoon in our local paper summed up my thoughts quite well. In the cartoon a man tells his wife that he is saving their marriage. The wife asks the husband if he means he is no longer staying out and abusing her. His answer is of course not, but he will vote for marriage between one man and one woman.

I am apprehensive about the reactions your letter will bring, but I admire you for standing up for what you believe.

Sincerely,

*****

Dear Brett,

Just want you to know I realize the enormous courage it took to send your letter. Your honesty and openness are certainly to be admired. However, knowing the mindset of many in our community, I feel you may receive some backlash. Please know you have my support and friendship and if there is any way I can be of help – I am here. I don’t want you to be hurt by this – I am hopeful it will just blow over.

Warmly,

*****

To Whom It May Concern,

This letter is in support of Brett.

How fortunate we are at [the church] to have such a talented individual as Brett.

Our first thoughts after Brett’s first Sundays were, “Wow, he’s only 25 and so accomplished as an organist, pianist, and choir director!”

Brett has our unconditional support as a Director of Music.

Respectfully,

*****

My collection of positive letters is growing. There are a few that I have not put here for various reasons, but to date, I have 9 letters and am expecting quite a few more this week. A dozen letters is certainly enough to fight the statement, "everyone in church is angry."

And now, time to post the real winner...

-Brett